As a parent, you have an important role in helping your child recover from sexual abuse.
Contrary to popular belief, sexual abuse is not a rare occurrence nor is it confined to any one social class, ethnic group or religious background. It can occur in any family and it happens more than we would like to think.
You may wonder what the special needs of my child, who has been sexually abused and will you be able to meet those needs. What about you? You are not only the parent but the secondary victim and your feelings are real and common in parents of child abuse victims.
This information takes a brief look at child’s definition of sexual, what your child may be feeling, how you can help and the feeling you may have as the parent/guardian. This may be a difficult experience but there are many resources in our community to help through this crisis.
What Is Child Sexual Abuse?
Child sexual abuse is any forced or tricked sexual contact by an adult or older child with a child. Usually the adult or older child is in a position of power or authority over the child. Physical force is generally not used, since there is usually a trusting relationship between the adult or older child and the child who is abused.
There are various types of sexual activity which may take place.
It can include open mouth kissing, touching, fondling, manipulation of the genitals, anus or breasts with fingers, lips, tongue or with an object. It may include intercourse. Children may not have been touched themselves but may have been forced to perform sexual acts on an adult or older child. Sometimes children are forced or tricked into disrobing for photography or are made to have sexual contact with other children while adults watch.
Where to Get Help
- Community Advocates for Family & Youth 301-390-4092
- Speak with the Child Protection worker if involved with your family about support services
- Your local Department of Human Services office
- Join Survivors are Free and Empowered (SAFE) for Parents a support groups for parents of children who have been sexually abused
- Legal Aid offices
- Your local community health center
Siblings who are aware of a brother or sister’s victimization, but are not actually abused themselves, may also suffer many of the same effects as an abused child.
Additional Resources
Who Are the Perpetrators of Child Sexual Abuse?
What Behaviors or Signs Might You See in a Child Who Has Been Sexually Abused?
A Dozen Ways to Help
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